Of the many different ways to express RSS and podcasts tonight I came across the image above at netaddiction.com. A pair of headphones surrounding the new style RSS icon. Simple, yet effective. I like.
As for the website, they treat the following ‘problems’: Chat Rooms, Cybersexual Affairs, Cybersex Addiction, Cyberporn Addiction, Chat Room Addiction, Obsessive Role Play Gaming, Compulsive Online Gambling, eBay Addiction and Compulsive Surfing.
eBay addiction? Is this spending too much time bidding on stuff one doesn’t want, need and/or can’t afford? Would have been nice to see the problems linked to definitions. Yes, most of them are obvious, but for a site that promises recovery, shouldn’t they define what the problems are? In fact, the FAQ section does define all of the conditions, including eBay addiction:
In more serious cases, eBay addicts feel a sense of accomplishment when they discover they are the highest bidder and begin to bid on items they don’t need just to experience the rush of winning – sometimes to the point that they go into financial debt, take out a second mortgage, or even go into bankruptcy just to afford their online purchases.
Yes, that would indicate a problem The site offers an auction addiction test.
Curious, I took their internet addiction quiz of which I scored the following:
34. You are an average on-line user. You may surf the Web a bit too long at times, but you have control over your usage.
I diasgreed with the context of some of the questions and why were there checkboxes for all the answers? Anybody who seriously checked multiple answers for most the questions like “How often do you feel depressed, moody, or nervous when you are off-line, which goes away once you are back on-line?” needs much more than internet recovery. It simply isn’t logical for a person to be able to answer with more than one answer.
I vote for adding question #21: “How often do you view internet forms and wish the right type of checkbox or radio button control was used?”
In all seriousness, one of our businesses is on the web and the other requires us to process a lot of official business through the web so we spend a lot of time proportionally on the web. The web isn’t an addiction, though, which I suppose some might point to and declare as some kind of denial. We are 24/7 connected to the internet and nearly that on Skype and Second Life, but the former is used as our telephone service for one business and the latter is used more as a passive, sometimes interactive chat than something either my wife or I need to do constantly. Neither of us are connected 24/7 to IM clients and our email is auto-retrieved every 5 minutes.
We take our share of AFK time and honestly since going TV-less we haven’t really increased our overall internet time which means we’ve actually added more R&R time to our lives. We typically take the most AFK time from the internet on Sunday, followed by Saturday. In fact, if you read this close to the publishing date/time (Sunday) we aren’t even online right now, my wife and I are offline celebrating our 17th anniversary in another state. I probably took my camera to capture the moment, but we didn’t take our computers or even PDA.
Blogs can use future post publishing option to get away
Thanks to future post publishing options, it’s possible to get away without looking like you are away. Not that we’re trying to deceive readers and I wouldn’t recommend doing this for too long a period without telling readers, but it can be a useful way to insert some future published posts during AFK times and keep readers with something new in their readers from your blog.
There are some cons to this like if the post format goes wacky it could screw up the site while you aren’t there to fix, so it’s important to check the post preview on these type posts carefully. Also, you won’t be able to answer any reader comments immediately. One possible solution is to give somebody else you trust admin access while you are away and ask them to moderate the site and answer any pressing comments. Darren Rowse has a good list of 7 things you can do when you go on vacation, but I’d add that you can use some of these techniques for regular days off too.
Better personal and professional organization creates more free time
One thing I’ve written repeatedly is that it is important to take time off. Yearly vacations aren’t a distraction, they are vital to a healthy life. I don’t just write or say this, I actually do this every week (with very few exceptions). You’ll burn out if you do anything too much and no project, hobby, business, whatever is worth adversely impacting your health. It is possible to be extremely busy and yet still have a good amount of R&R time. Just work on personal and professional organization skills and cut down or out activities that don’t better your life in some appreciable way like providing a smile, hmm (hint, hint), networking, business, or other valuable personal or professional supplement.
As always, look forward to reading your insightful commentary on this and/or other posts when we return.